Once the divorce decree is final, many people assume that things are all set. But not so fast. There are a few housekeeping details that should be attended to, to make sure your family and loved ones are properly taken care of, if you are no longer around. Here is a checklist of steps to take to protect the ones that are important to you:
1. Update Your Will. If you have minor children, the other surviving parent will have priority to be the guardian in the event of your death. However, you will need to appoint another individual(s) to serve in the capacity of legal guardian in the event that both parents are deceased or otherwise unavailable, while your children are still minors. You will also need to appoint a personal representative other than your former spouse. The personal representative is typically a short-term position: pays outstanding bills and taxes and distributes assets pursuant to the Will. Finally, you should review the trustee and custodian appointments for any trusts or other financial accounts for minor children. It may not be appropriate to name your former spouse as the trustee or custodian of these accounts.
2. Other Trusts. Divorce revokes trust provisions naming the former spouse as beneficiary. Although the former spouse is treated as if he/she were deceased, you will want to review those documents to confirm how the assets of those trusts will pass, following the divorce or separation.
3. Retirement Accounts & Life Insurance. Review your beneficiary designations on all of your IRA's and your 401K's and other retirement plans, as well as the beneficiary designations on your life insurance policies. This is particularly important because these financial institutions are not interested in researching the marital status of policy owners and their designated beneficiaries, prior to distribution of account proceeds, following a death. They only look to the stated beneficiary on their Beneficiary Designation forms!!
4. Power of Attorney. You will need to appoint a new attorney-in-fact. A divorce or separation automatically terminates the appointment of a former spouse as attorney-in-fact, and the power-of-attorney is useless.
5. Health Care Directive. You will also need to appoint someone other than your former spouse as your "proxy" for health care decisions, in the event you are unable to make those decisions yourself. As with the Power of Attorney, divorce or separation will revoke the appointment of a former spouse.
Updating these documents is important, as these documents deal with issues that are very personal and important to you, and are not necessarily addressed in the dissolution or separation documents. Be certain to take care of these important details!!!
Updating these documents is important, as these documents deal with issues that are very personal and important to you, and are not necessarily addressed in the dissolution or separation documents. Be certain to take care of these important details!!!